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Saturday, November 11, 2006

according to my mno readings, a lot of the decisions i make in my life may not necessarily be good ones because it seems that i have fallen into several of the 8 psychological traps in decision-making.

i tell you, mno is seriously my favourite module this sem. it's part psychology, part sociology, part fluff. i get to study about what influences the minds of business executives when they make decisions. and wow-wee, it seems that these are applicable to real-life too.

welll, according to the Harvard Business Review article i'm reading now, it seems that i have fallen into the status-quo trap several times over.
the source of the status-quo trap lies deep within our psyches, in our desire to protect our egos from damage. breaking from the status-quo means taking action, and when we take action, we take responsibility, thus opening ourselves to critcism and to regret. not surprisingly, we naturally look for reasons to do nothing. sticking with the status-quo represents, in most cases, the safer course because it puts us at less psychological risk.


and it would also seem that i've fallen prey to the sunk-cost trap more often in my life than i would have liked.

another of our deep-seated biasnes is to make choices in a way that justifies past choices, even when the past choices no longer seem valid. why can't people free themselves from past decisions? frequently, it's because they are unwilling, consciously or not, to admit to a mistake.

being the arrogant individual that i am, i do not like to admit to my mistakes. and even when i do realise the error of my ways, i find it so hard to accept that fact and change my mind. it seems that when i'm wrong about something, i'm even more determined to keep at it in the hopes that success will eventually fall onto my lap. well, hello. it seems that my stubbornness isn't unique only to me. it's common to everyone in the form of a sunk-cost psychological trap!

spent the better part of the night studying downstairs, but although i feel inclined to think that i did a lot, thinking back i think i didn't really accomplish that much. just webcasted my mno lecture, copied over Chelsa's film notes from Monday's lecture and read one mno reading. we took a one-hour Sheares supper break and came back at 12 plus feeling too too full.
am supposed to be sleeping soon cos i have to get up at the unearthly time of 830am tomorrow morning cos there's some SMU thing to do. then lecture after that! heh but i HAD to finish blogging about my interesting finding cos when i read it, i was all like, oh wow, i can so relate to this stuff! i think that's what i means to be interested in your subject matter.

i think i shall play a quick game of spider solitaire before going to bed. the one-hour nap earlier on in the evening has overcharged me somewhat.

2:35 AM;
0 red rose(s) just for you.
butterflies and zebras.
kelly marie ang
7 november 1987
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chij tp/acjc
nus arts
IHM * zion's joy
kent ridge hall * b-blocker
elizabeth arden-green tea
ralph lauren-glamorous
body shop-white musk
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now she's walking through the clouds:
i hope you still feel small
when you stand beside the ocean
whenever one door closes,
i hope one more opens
promise me you'll give faith
a fighting chance

and when you get the choice
to sit it out or dance
dance, _____
i hope you dance.


1 corinthians 13:4-8
love is patient, love is kind.
it is not jealous,
love is not pompous,
it is not inflated,
it is not rude,
it does not seek its own interests,
it is not quick-tempered,
it does not brood over injury,
it does not rejoice over wrongdoing
but rejoices with the truth.
it bears all things,
believes all things,
hopes all things,
endures all things.
love never fails.


movies and fairytales:
when you have to look away
when you don't have much to say
that's when i love you
i love you, just that way.
to hear you stumble when you speak
ir see you walk with two left feet
that's when i love you
i love you; endlessly.


ami.

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angela
carol
chelsa
cheryl
chingjoo
cH
dee
en
huili
jeanne
john
julie
khin
liting
lynette
melissa netto
michelle lee
nick tay
sam li
shane
sherman
stella
trina
xiufen
yisi
yongxi


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i hope you dance.

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